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Dating Advice for Modern Men – a "how To" Solution

Alex Coulson asked:

Well gents,

There’s plenty of dating advice out there for men however it’s seldom you come across advice that you can actually out to some good use.

A lot of advice helps men when they IN a relationship and not how to get into one.

Some AWESOME Dating Advice is on it’s way …

Dating Advice Tip #1

Clean breath is important, don’t overlook this! The last thing a girl wants to do is be around a guys with zombie breath let a lone kiss somebody with this stench. Good oral hygiene is important and CRITICAL when it comes to first dates and going out ‘on the town’ for search of the lucky girl.

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Dating Advice Tip #2

Dress well and don’t look like a dag/bum/forrest gump.

Women want men who dress sharp. So make sure the side burns are in check, you’re clean shaven, you have sharp cologne, clean clothing/shoes.

You will notice a lot more people paying attention to you, you’ll also get more respect. As the saying goes “a man cannot expect respect if he doesn’t respect himself”

Dress to stand out always. Don’t dress like a gigolo or ‘player’ as this has a very negative connotation to it. You should dress pimp as pimp is FUN.

Velvet jackets, snake boots, spikes hair, fake tattoos, bling bling.

Dating Advice Tip #3

Smile. This is overlooked and is important when it comes to dating advice.

If you look like you’re out to have fun and enjoy yourself then people especially women will notice this and would want to join in. They’ll prefer to hang around a guy that is the party than somebody that comes across he’s trying to “pick up” or get it on with her : )

This comes later …

The most successful guys I’ve seen with women look like they’ve known them for ages, like they’re long lost friends, they’re cracking jokes, smiling, playful hitting them and enjoying themselves.

His mindset is “he’s the party” and he’s inviting them into his reality. He’s the prize and they’re joining in with him.

If they do something which disrupts “his” party ie. Gives him challenges, acts all princessy, brings the energy down then no matter how hot she looks she’s OUT.

Always be willing to walk away from anything. This principle applies in business especially but is as important in relationships and dating.

By being able to walk away you have and hold onto the power.

For more good tips visit http://www.alexcoulson.com and claim access to your Free “5 Step System” Audio Course (limited time only).

Dating Advice Tip #4

Be prepared.

Some good advice on dating is be prepared with your conversation starter and a back up story or routine.

The last thing you want to do it blow the set open, have them laughing at everything you say and running out of things to say …then what do you say?

“Ummm ….It was great meeting you girls … I have to go …”

No. This is the worst thing to do. Stay in there as long as you can and push the interaction as far as you can.

After your conversation starter have a prepared story to tell about anything. It doesn’t have to be related to your conversation starter just spit out whatever

If you keep talking they’ll probably stay, if you stop talking they’ll def leave.

Dating Advice Tip #5

Have great body language. Learn to hold interactions with strong powerful body language.

-Keep your shoulders back

-Chest high, groin out, stomach in

-Smile

-Touch the girls as much as you can

-Deepen your voice

-Don’t move or talk to quickly

-Don’t give the girls too much attention early on in the interaction

If it helps you should go to the gym. Not only will you feel more empowered with good body language you’ll also get more IOIs and women can approach you sometimes (don’t rely on this though but sometimes it happens)

Dating Advice Tip #6

The best advice I can give is to go out there and do it. The more you try and test in the ‘real word;’ the better you’ll become and the more proficient you’ll get.

After awhile you’ll start seeing consistent results after approaching so many women. You’ll collect 3-4 phone numbers on a single day or night. (assuming you approach at least 3-4 women that is) : )

Talk soon

Alex

www.alexcoulson.com

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6 Quick and Easy Tips for Picking Up Younger Women

Scott Patterson asked:

One of the biggest problems guys face is trying to pick up women in various age categories. Many men think using the same techniques and routines on different aged girls will get them the same positive results.

Unfortunately, this rarely works!

Instead of trying to use the same routine over and over, you should follow a system that’s based on their specific age. This is especially true if you want to pick up younger women.

Now if you’re interested in younger women (Ages 18-24) you should create a plan of attack which is specific to this age bracket.

In the next few paragraphs, I’ll provide a system for picking up younger women. Primarily you can use these techniques to pick up young women when they’re working at their job or place of employment.

Here we go…

1- Know where to find younger women

It’s obvious, to pick up younger women, you have to go where they work.

This means frequenting spots like the beach, bars/clubs which cater to youthful crowd, coffee shops, and trendy retail stores. What’s interesting is many of these places hire younger women to work there, so if you’ve got a pretty good routine, you can easily pick them up.

2- Be mature

There is one weak spot which all younger women have- they ALL want to feel like a mature adult.

Think about it…

These type of women are in the position where they want to have more independence. Either they’re in high school, college or new to the ‘real world’, these women want to prove themselves and act like a real adult.

Therefore, if you want to pick up a younger girl, you have to be a mature person. Since she’s looking to transform into a mature adult, you could be the guy who matches her desired outcome.

3- Treat her with respect

In addition to being a mature influence, you should treat a younger woman with respect. Since she wants to exert her independence, you want to treat her like and adult and not like a little girl.

When you’re talking to her at her job, ask about her personal life and get her talking about the things she finds interesting. My advice is to keep the conversations lighthearted and fun, while avoiding the ‘interview’ like questions.

In other words, you want to focus on her needs and personality. Since you’re probably one of the first guys to treat her with respect and maturity, you’ll probably start to develop some attraction.

4- Cultivate a friendship

For a couple of weeks, start frequenting the spots where she works and strike up a conversation every time you see her. If she works in a service environment, make sure tip well and be a fun guy to be around.

In other words, make her look forward to seeing you whenever you arrive at her workplace.

5- Go for the date

After you’ve created a fun environment, try asking her out on a date. What you want to do is structure the date request in a manner where there is actually no way she can say no.

So if you want to ask her out for drinks. Say something like, “We should grab drinks sometime, let me get your number”. What I like about this technique is you’re never actually giving her a chance to say no.

In addition, by asking her on a date this way you’re acting in a confident manner, which attracts women!

6- Get her alone

Now when you go out on the date, continue to be lighthearted and fun. Use your seduction techniques to build attraction and rapport.

If all goes well, you’ll easily be able to seduce her and make things more physical.

Picking up younger women isn’t a difficult thing to do. Just remember you have to fit a certain role and be the right kind of person. If you follow the 6 steps I’ve outlined in this article, you should easily meet and attract a lot of younger women in to your life.

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Lipstick. Why is it Worn?

perry estelle asked:

Lipstick. Why is it worn?

 

The assumption is that lipstick as with any other cosmetics is to make women and indeed on occasions for men throughout history, to become more desirable. To appear more alluring to the opposite number, and that such measures will assure acceptance, secure approval and eventually a shag. My wife has already wasted hundreds of pounds on the stuff, in that case. To her credit, she spends a lot of time on her appearance and ‘polishes’ up well. Only the other day she looked radiant when all signs of inexorable ageing had been skilfully concealed. She still makes my heart jump when I see her, hence the betablockers and hand held defribillator.

 

Men have worn lipstick in the past as fashion dictates, and for health. During King Charles reign and at the time of the aristocracy men would wear all kinds of blusher and long wigs. Why? Headlice, was rife amongst all people because they hadn’t invented insecticide shampoo, and as we all know, rampant parasites will destroy the good health of the scalp and hair loss and even cause death by anaemia. So long wigs and a rouge colour were used to hide a pallid and jaundiced complexion amongst the wealthy. Poor people always looked pale and drawn.

 

So, my research bears out that facial colour or a ruddy cheeked person is associated with a healthy person. Either way, make-up makes you look ‘healthier’. This is how the human population perpetuates. Make-up is essential for the world’s survival.

 

Lipstick is related to the human fascination and obsession with blood.

 

Jews sacrificed animals as part of their custom and drained the blood of animals. They were forbidden to drink blood as it was sacred. Judaism since the time of Moses has been draining the blood of animals into the ground. Ashes to ashes dust to dust. They believe Adam was made from the dust of the earth and his lifeblood as all who die is returned to the earth. Jews today still will accept blood transfusions to preserve life in medical emergencies but will not eat pork or cloven hoofed animals because they are thought ‘unclean’. Also they believe that Satan and his demons have cloven hooves depicted by ancient Scribes who described the angels of darkness in Pentateuch and the book of Revelation. 

 

The Jews of the Bible also believed that a woman on her menstrual cycle was unclean for at least 7 days (The book of Leviticus) 

 

Pagans, Satanists love a drop of blood to drink. Warriors and barbarians would smear the blood of their enemies in times of victory all over each other.

Shamans and witch doctors. Voodoo and the occult have ceremonies of drinking human blood to prolong the life of their community. Today we have aerobics and liposuction.

 

Early medicine prescribed leeches to be laid on skin to drink blood to effect a cure. This was called ‘Letting’. Other leeches who enjoy ‘letting’ are called landlords.

 

North American Indians will mix the blood of other fellow hunters to become ‘blood brother’s’ once again the significance of blood.

 

Corpses are given a makeover to make them look a lot better than before they died, which is a bit like rendering a house that has already become condemned.

 

Lipstick is nothing to do with courtship ritual, but it is still a ritual for most insecure people. To make you feel pretty when you are born ugly. In Beverley Hills, hags will go to any length to appear healthy and young by having one facelift after another. So, thats when they try and smile their knickers wrap them up like a spinning window blind out of a Tom and Jerry cartoon.

 

Adam Ant wore lipstick as with other New Romantic pop bands of the eighties because he was a closet homosexual. It was a fact that he had often had his own ‘Ants’ in his pants. That bloke out of The Cure still thinks he looks cool to wear make up even if he looks like an old man who caught his head in a carwash.

 

Punk-rockers, Goths, prove that makeup is purely ritual. A tribal expression to identify with other people who don’t have a job or know wear the soap is.

 

 A woman is usually already beautiful without all that crap they spread over their faces. Perhaps they should remember that a rabbit or mouse probably had to wear that lipstick first, probably died in its cage, without even seeing the inside of a nightclub. Girls who dance in cages in those sort of places haven’t a clue what lab rats go through. How many rodents do you see sliding up and down brass poles, expecting money stuffed in their thong? None.

 

Men don’t want painted trollops.  As long as the bikini line isn’t down by the knees that is. Unless, of course you are a continental ‘Mature Lady’ and only receive incoming calls.

 

I’m in touch with my feminine side. I have a twin sister and we used to dress up sometimes, but I drew the line at lipstick. Then the Internet came along and I stopped all that. 

 

Lipstick wearing is the media expecting us to follow ideals of what tribal identity is all about. If these glossy magazines had it their way we would all walk about looking like right clowns. Life is not a catwalk for everyone. I agree, lips are not always our best feature and may need enhancement. We can’t all have a voluptuous mouth like Jagger or Jolie but too much lipgloss and Botox can make your jaw look like a bouncy castle, and we don’t want that do we?

 

 

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8 Eye Make Up Tips To Help You Get Ready For That Romantic Date

Janice Tham asked:

Romance is in the air. So what are you wearing for your date?

A sexy dress with a plunging neckline?

Jeans and a pretty top?

A feminine dress that his mom might approve?

How about your makeup? You could look more stunning than ever with the right makeup. Now what would be appropriate for the date?

What does he like?

If naturally pretty types appeal to him, goth makeup would turn him off. Natural looking makeup would be your best bet.

If he likes girls that are sweet and soft, dragon lady makeup might scare him off. Something soft and pretty would work.

If he prefers dangerous women, sultry lips or smokey eyes for that vamp look would probably work.

In any case, you could wear your regular makeup, or you could try something different.

The eye makeup is the toughest to do, so this article would focus on your eyes.

For a romantic date, go for the radiant, pretty look, rather than ice lady or goth, unless, he is a goth boy or someone who prefers ice to warmth.

1. Pick a main eye shadow color that flatter you.

If you have warm skin tones, go for corals, salmons, peaches and browns as the main eye shadow color. Coral eye shadow over the entire eyelid, balanced with a smokey charcoal or dark brown in the crease of the lid and a shimmery beige for highlights.

If you have cool skin tones, are your eyes blue or green? Do they have blue or green flecks? An eye shadow in that exact shade of blue or green as the main shadow color would bring out your gorgeous eye color. If your eyes are dark brown or black, a contrasting color like lilac might work better.

2. Use a pale shimmer for your highlighter

If your skin color is warm, go for a pale gold highlighter or a shimmery warm beige or very pale shimmery peach. If you are dark, go for an amber or a darker gold. If your skin color is cool, go for a silver, cool beige or a pale pink for your highligher.

3. Line your eyes with an eye pencil then go over the line with a eye shadow in a matching shade so it would last.

4. If you have dark circles under the eyes, hide them with a concealer. Before you put on makeup, you might want to lie down with a slice of cucumber over each closed eye to reduce the puffiness.

5. When you line your eyes, apply or remove eye makeup, never tug the delicate skin around the eyes. You may cause wrinkles to form earlier because of rough handling.

6. Have a cotton bud and eye makeup remover handy in case of mistakes. You can dip the cotton bud in eye makeup and use that to erase mascara smudges or makeup mishaps.

7. Use two coats of mascara for long, lush lashes that guys find very attractive. Making it clump free is tricky. Read the resources below for step by step instructions on applying mascara and eye shadow.

8. If you are going for a movie where you might cry (a sad tale or a hilariously funny one that might have you laugh until tears flow) or if you are going somewhere you might sweat, play it safe and wear a waterproof mascara.

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Get Your Ex Back With the Magic of Making Up!

kanetohman asked:

Get Your Ex Back With The Magic of Making Up!

There are few things as hard as a breakup with somebody you were really serious with. When the love of your life decides that you’re not worth being with, it’s a heavy blow that really knocks you down. I’ve been there…it’s really no picnic. There is some hope, however…there are ways you can not just get over the pain, but also get your ex back!

Truth is, it’s even fairly simple if you follow the right plan and have the right mindset about it. This is where having a guide really comes in handy, and the reason I’m writing this article is so that I can recommend you a personal friend of mine who’s not only helped ME with my relationship issues, but a lot of other people as well.

There are a couple main reasons why loving couples break up, and I can guarantee your situation is at its core no different than thousands of other ones…ones who have successfully reconciled and gotten back together. If you doubt that anything CAN help you…I hate to be rude, but you’re flat-out wrong. Nearly any situation can be resolved, if only you understand how to do it.

Through the links in the last paragraph on this article, you can find your way to his site. You’re under no obligation to buy anything, you can just browse through the videos and free information he has up on his site. You can get a few very valuable tips just by reading through his homepage, so if you are at all interested in getting your life back on track and getting back together with the love of your life, I strongly recommend you at least take a look. You have nothing to lose but your breakup pain.

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Do Dating Advice And Tips Really Work?

Ann Marier asked:

Dating advice and tips can be found just about anywhere you look for them, but are they really beneficial to you? Well, it really all depends on where you get these dating advice and tips. After all, if you’ve come across tips or advice that’s offered by someone who still is in the dating scene themselves, it should make you wonder if these tips really work, why are they having a hard time with dating themselves?

It’s all going to depend on why they offer the tips and what you do with these dating advice and tips. If the person offering the advice openly admits they still haven’t figured out all there is to know about dating, but there are a couple of things they have found to work, you’ll have to use your own discretion when deciding whether to utilize the advice or not. There’s a good chance that the advice is nothing more than a small part to the huge puzzle so it may work, but it won’t offer you all the answers.

Stop Looking to Find the Whole Picture from Dating Advice and Tips

The bottom line is that you’ll never get the entire picture or find all the answers to your dating problems just from reading dating advice and tips. And another point to be made is that not all dating advice and tips will work for everyone. You’ll need to be true to yourself, and don’t use this advice or these tips if they just aren’t you. You don’t want to pretend to be someone you’re not in order to utilize dating tips and advice, as eventually your true colors will show through and this can be something that will confuse the one you’re dating.

After all, they’ll wonder why all of a sudden you like things you didn’t seem to like when they first met you, and vice versa. So, keep in mind that the only way dating advice and tips will work for you is to choose the ones that will let you be true to yourself and the one you’re dating. Not doing this is probably the number one reason dating doesn’t work out for many.

In the end, there is no short answer as to whether dating advice and tips really work. You’ll need to decide for yourself if the source of these tips is reliable, and whether the advice and tips will let you keep your dignity and self confidence.

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How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back – How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back by not Making These 3 Mistakes

allan lim usa asked:

How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back – How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back By Not Making These 3 Mistakes

How can I get my girlfriend back if she is ignoring me? Is it possible?

So your ex ignores you and you are wondering whether you can get her back. Well, it depends on what you did and did not do. Below are three things that you will want to avoid doing like a plague. Doing them can potentially drive your girlfriend away from you.

1)     Begging her to come back

You do not want to beg her to come back. You do not want to tell her things like, “Please come back. I miss you very much.” The reason why is because you don’t want to appear needy in front of her.

The truth is no girl will even like a needy guy. So don’t say these kinds of things even if you really mean what you say. They won’t help you in any way.

2)     Trying to “appear” before her too often

As you really want to get your girlfriend back as soon as possible, you may try whatever means you can to get in front of her. You may try to guess where she will be going today. And you purposely go there, hoping that you will “accidentally” bump into her. And you may say, “What a coincidence. Didn’t know you will be here today.”

Again, don’t do that. Both of you know it is not a “coincidence”. Don’t embarrass yourself by doing that.

3)     Trying to get her to hear your voice

Just like point 2 mention above. Except that, this time, you are only trying to get her to hear your voice. You try to call her too often. And if she didn’t answer your call, you will call 10 more times until she answers them.

Again, you don’t want to do that. It will only annoy her. Of course, there are more mistakes than those 3 mentioned above. Perhaps, this guideline will be useful to you. Don’t do things that make you seem desperate in her eyes. Follow this guideline well and you will avoid spoiling your chances to get your ex back.

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Best Advice After A Break Up – Beware Of Rebound Relationships

Jake Fitzgerald asked:

The best piece of advice after a break up you can get is to make sure you don’t get caught in a rebound relationship. A rebound relationship is one where either one or both the partners are still not over their previous relationship. Thus, while it is possible to find true love once again after you have broken up; if it happens too soon after the break up then the odds of it being a rebound relationship are high.

Advice After A Break Up: Are You In A Rebound Relationship

Here are some signs that will help you to determine whether you’re in a rebound relationship or not:

Is your ex almost always in your thoughts? A lot of people can’t stop thinking about their ex even when they are in someone else’s company. For instance, you are out for dinner with your new partner but are thinking that the last time you visited that restaurant was with your ex. Thus, if such things are happening with you, then you’re not completely over your ex and could be in a rebound relationship.

Can you think or talk about your ex freely or does that bring back a lot of pain and sadness? If you find that you become sad or perhaps even angry when remembering your ex, then you have unresolved feelings. And if you’re in another relationship with such feelings, then it is very likely that you’re on the rebound.

Are you constantly looking back and thinking that ‘only if’ you had done certain things… or ‘only if’ you had listened more… or maybe ‘only if’ you were around more…things would be different? If you’re still not over the ‘what ifs’ and the ‘only ifs’, you’re definitely not ready for a new relationship.

Thus, ensure that you are not in a rebound relationship as such a bond is not fair to either you or your partner. This is one piece of advice after a break up you should never ignore.

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Getting Dating Advice

Jason Hulott1 asked:

Dating can be daunting whether you are a serial dater or someone who has been out of the dating scene for quite a while, and that is why dating advice can prove so invaluable. It can help you with choosing venues, tips on they type of conversation you can make, as well as what to wear.

Good dating advice will also offer suggestions on keeping yourself safe when meeting people for the first time.

Basically, it can give you the confidence that everything is in place to ensure that your dating experience will be a good one. It can discuss the differences between men and women when it comes to romance and relationships as well as things like dating etiquette.

Good advice includes looking at the bad times and not just the good times, giving you a true perspective on dating.

Dating advice can come from a wide range of places and the more research you do, the better! You can speak to your friends, read books on the subject and can use the internet.

In fact, the internet is a good place to start. There are literally dozens of reputable friendship and dating websites and many offer free advice, guidance and tips on dating, relationships, love, sex and romance. You can also browse the many forums on these sites for really personal, honest advice and experiences from their members. After all, the advice will be from people who have experience of dating.

On line dating and friendship sites also offer fun resources too, such as dating quizzes and many have experts whom you can ask questions of.

Dating and meeting new people can be great fun and if you are armed with knowledge, the whole experience can be even better.

So, if you are looking for good dating advice, you know where to start!

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Dating Tips: Who Should Dole Out The Money?

My Relationship Tips asked:

In dating, there are a lot of written and unwritten rules. Once a particular question is asked, it can lead to a start of a debate between the sexes.

An example of such question is: who should pay for a date? Some women will answer right out, it is the guy who should pay. Some may insist on going Dutch.

Money and dating should not be in the same sentence when you are enclosed in that romantic haze, but you have to be practical and think about who should pay when you go out on a date.

The dating game is very complicated, and any aspect about it can start arguments between both genders. The least that one can come up with is some unwritten, modern-day guidelines when it comes to paying for a date. Take a look at the following:

1. The one who initiates the date would have to pay.

If you are a man going after the woman of your dreams, the basic rule of thumb is, you should be the one to pay.

If you are on your second, third or fourth date and it looks as if you will continue to see more of each other, then you can easily make arrangements on who should pay for which meal.

Should there be other expenses when you go out that needs to be taken care of, you can both decide on it as you grow more familiar with each other.

If you are a woman and you casually invited your man to go out, it would not be awkward or bad-looking for him if you offer to pay for your date since you were the one who issued the invite.

The only thing that you need to remember is that the inviter should pay for the invitee.

However, there are times when you would have more than one tab to pay.

If you decide to go to a movie first before dinner, the one who bought the tickets should not have to pay for dinner, too. Make sure that you contribute something and not let your date pay for your entire evening together.

2. If you have it, flaunt it.

Not in your date’s face, though.

If you are on a date and one is obviously more affluent than the other, then the more financially capable one should dole out the money.

If you are a woman and you know that you are more well-off than your date, do not hesitate in offering to pay up. Should your date refuse the first time, cave in, but make sure that the next time you go out, you will be the one to shoulder the bill. This rule can also apply to friends going out to eat somewhere.

This does not go to say that the one without funds should never pay, but always consider the other person’s financial means when going out on a date.

3. Get this matter out of the way right before your date starts.

To avoid awkwardness, you should immediately get this issue out of the way. For example, just before you sit down to dinner, the person who will shoulder the bill should say, It’s my treat, or Dinner’s on me. This is so that you would not have to resolve the issue – should an argument ensue – after you have eaten.

4. For men, give ample consideration for traditional or conservative women who still think that it is should be the man who would have to pay for the a date.

This rule particularly applies to women who are above 40. If you want to get on their good graces, it is still a good thing to pay for a date especially the first one. Most women from this age group might feel awkward or uncomfortable offering to pay for a date.

Generally, women will feel more pampered when a man pays for the first date. In fact, most women expect it.

Men, on the other hand, feel like it is their role to pay for the date. In this case, it is okay to throw the modern, unwritten dating rules out the window and let the men pay for the date.

5. Going Dutch is not a very good idea when going out on dates.

Aside from the complications of splitting the bill, going Dutch would not apply to every situation. This would only be good if you are a dating couple and you are both students, then you can split the bill with no harm done.

However, as mature adults, one shouldering the full bill for your night out would show your way of looking at things at a broader sense.

Paying for a date does not show what you are capable of, financially. It would also show your generosity and the fact that you want to take care of each other’s needs.

Finally, if you are in the habit of alternating payments between dates, then you are building a give and take quality that every relationship should have.

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